Peace through Open-Mindedness, Ethics, and Compassion.

o·pen-mind·ed (pn-mndd)
adj.
Having or showing receptiveness to new and different ideas or the opinions of others. See Synonyms at broad-minded.

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open-minded·ly adv.
open-minded·ness n.

In these times when so much war and unrest dominate the world stage, it forces one to think about differences. Differences of faith, culture, and opinion are often the basis for conflict. What else can we do but objectively learn and understand the past in order to move forward into the future; understand the multitude of reasons we as humans can make the choice to kill one another for our opinion, our religion, our possesions, our land.
I put forth that the logical solution toward peace is not peace through only “understanding”, or “tolerance”, but peace through open-mindedness, Ethics, and Compassion. The term tolerance to me always infers that the party preaching tolerance are better but we will put up with whomever or whatever group is being tolerated. I don’t belive this word should be used in foreign politics or civil law at all.
Through open-mindedness we can gain the understanding and the wisdom to be able to treat others ethically and not judge them against our singular view of what the world should be. Only the open mind will listen and accept or reason with another.
Ethics give us a sense of right and wrong that fits a global perspective and really only in the strictest sense. When it comes to ethics we have to ask, how will this action affect others and does anyone get hurt from the action. When dealing in non western cultures we also have to ask what are the ethics of this culture and does our sense of ethics fit in their society. As an example, perhaps we are trying to help in a society where having multiple wives is common. As a monogomous majority of western culture, we have to accept this and move on. This doesn’t mean that we can or have to accept that its ok to treat these wives badly, nor any member of the society for that matter. It is a basic truth in western culture and a basic human truth that all people are created equal, therefore we must stand strong in that conviction that men, women and children alike deserve all the same civil rights and freedoms. From the logical and ethical perspective we must also respect the laws in each society. So where does this leave us when the laws of a society conflict with some basic human laws such as equality. This is where closer examination and perhaps compromise to our ethics have to be considered. Perhaps in some situations the needs of the many outway the needs of the few or the one. This concept is hard to accept and it is when getting into the details of a situation where openmindedness, ethics and compassion becomes even more important and where decisions cannot be made quicly or lightly.
It is our compassion towards others that bridges the ethics and open mindedness together. Without our compassion neither of the two would stand alone and work to make life better for those involved. Our human compassion allows us to temper strict logic and ethics with a perspective of kindness and fairness for all even if logic points to one solution, compassion may lean that solution in another direction in the interest of fairness for all. We have to be carefull though that in striving for fairness for all we don’t cause harm or unfairness to the individual.
So the message here is be openminded, be ethical, be compassionate, and with these three rules, we can make the move toward peace.

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Argh!

Ok so after sending in my previously posted letter to the Ontario Health Services, I finally received my new Health Card in the Mail. Guess what? They have the wrong Birth date listed on it!

About two weeks later I received another with the correct Birthdate (following another brief letter to them). So the tally for the debacle I would estimate to be somewhere in the neighborhood of $900 for the people to tell me I needed a new card and the process of getting the card as well as the two copies of the card (good one and bad one) not to mention say 450.00 of my time. Vs…seeing the doctor at a cost of $150.00 Max and then getting the card in an off time when I wasn’t in pain. And people wonder why we have a shortage in the system?

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Service Ontario – An Oxymoron? – April 29th Letter I wrote to the Ministry of Health

April 29th, 2009
Dear Madame,

It is with disappointment for the state of our provincial government services in the healthcare sector that I write this letter.
The idea that my healthcare coverage could “expire” simply because of a date placed on piece of plastic in itself makes me ill. For approximately
25 years I carried the same red and white card with me and received healthcare whenever it was needed. It was only recently that I ventured to a walk-in clinic after not having to see a doctor or had a need to utilize our health care system for almost 4 years, that I found out I couldn’t be treated unless I paid because there was an expire date on my fancy health card with my picture on it. Following this I spent 2 hours in sitting in pain at a refugee camp disguised as a Service Ontario office just to prove that I was eligible for health care.

After getting my temporary letter only because I had pay stubs with me that proved I had worked for the last year in Ontario (actually the last 25 or so), let alone paying taxes for the last 2 decades, I ventured to an urgent care clinic since I was in need of urgent care. Apparently the term urgent has a different meaning in the healthcare industry as for me urgent was another two hours before I could see a doctor.
I certainly have noticed that the taxes I pay haven’t expired and ceased to be taken from my paycheck every two weeks. The GST and PST I pay on a daily basis and the property taxes I pay every year never seem to expire and I have never asked the government to prove to me that it was eligible to receive my money.

I fear that in the best interests of the health care system and in an attempt to prevent fraudulent activity, those like yourself in charge of our health care system have brought about the very breakdown in the system that you were attempting to prevent. A state where honest hard working individuals are guilty until proven innocent.

I find it extremely disheartening that someone such as I, born and raised in Ontario, having lived here all my life would suddenly be faced with proving that I am eligible for health care. I furthermore put forth the name Service Ontario is an oxymoron.

You will find attached a copy of my birth certificate. I trust this will allow YOU to correct the lack of consistency between YOUR records and that of the Ontario Registrar that has caused me so much grief and a loss of faith in my province to manage healthcare. I will no longer defend our system of healthcare to my American friends when they poke holes in it.

Sincerely,

William A. C. Rosenblath,
IT Systems Engineer

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Kitchen Renovations – 2009 the Sequel

Well its been a busy month and a bit, and I haven’t had time to do any writing other than web site modifications for rostech.net. That should be out this week.
I wanted to put one small post with the outcome of the kitchen renovations….Pictures have been up here in our flickr connection for your viewing, but I thought I would finish the commentary.
We managed to reschedule one week down the road for second new countertop and it arrived and fit this time. We decided to get a new sink to go along with our new taps, so those have now been installed with the new sink and we ended up getting the drains redone under the sink and having our friendly plumber back to get everything completed.
All is good now, we love our kitchens new look…now we’re thinking about ceramic tile for the floor.
Till next time….
Wil

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Kitchen Renovations – 2009

Like many people do after purchasing a new place, we decided to make some changes to our kitchen. Nothing too drastic, just a few minor changes. We decided to add a dishwasher and at the same time increase our countertop size to cover the entire length of the dishwasher and the base cupboards. Sue’s Mom bought us a dishwasher for Christmas, so this stepped up our time frame and we dove into the project. (thanks Ma.)
I studied architecture in high school so when it comes time to do renovations I typically do the designs myself. I put together a drawing of the kitchen that included all the necessary measurments and detail on the placement of everything. The dishwasher we were installing was a small apartment size dishwasher (18″) wide, so the countertop needed to be increased in size from the current 7 feet (84 inches) to 102 inches.
We contracted a kitchen company to get the countertop and have it installed and chose our new countertop etc.
Countertop ordered and installation scheduled we had to prepare the kitchen for their arrival. I disconnected the existing plumbing and since it was 35 years old, all the drains and piping are a combination of brass and copper instead of PVC which is now commonly used. The faucet was hard soldered into the pipes, so after disconnecting the drains by loosening the nuts on them I had to cut the pipes going to the taps. Its normal for these to be replaced by fittings and flex hoses.
We attempted to arrange for a plumber but couldn’t find anyone available in the time frame we needed, so I opted to do the job myself and we headed to home depot for supplies.
We picked out our new faucet and all the required adapters and whatyamacallits to hook everthing up. While heading to the counter to purchase everything a young man came up to us and asked if we had a plumber to hook all that stuff up. We replied, no actually we couldn’t find one so we were doing it ourself. We then asked do you know someone who is available. He said: “well I’m a plumber and I’m new to it and always looking for extra work.” We decided to give him a shot and arranged for him to stop by after the counter top was installed to spec out what he needed and then complete the job on Saturday.
The countertop people arrived on Friday ready to install our new countertop, but things didn’t go quite as planned. For some unknown reason they made the countertop 1-1/2 feet too small. Apparently when they sent over their estimater to take all the measurements, he didn’t bother to look at the drawing and a language barrier prevented him from fully understanding…Sue said he nodded and smiled alot and she didn’t think he really got it.
So we were now faced with a non-working kitchen and a severely broken old countertop since they had broken out the old faucet and the counter being somewhat rotted had given way in the area surrounding the faucet.
When our plumber showed up, we explained the dilemna and decided to go ahead and hook everything up anyway to the old counter top to hold us over until the new countertop shows up.
The countertop company said they would try and have a new countertop for us by a week from the first try, or two weeks if it doesn’t arrive in time. They apparently order all of their countertops from Quebec, so shipping is a week apart.
I found out the cupboards were put in before the tile so I had to chip away some of the existing tile to move the base cabinet over in order to make room for the dishwasher. I messed up a bit initially, moving the base cabinet the width of itself rather than the width of the dishwasher, but figured it out part way through. Oh well, we wanted to replace the tiles anyway!
So as it stands everything is working in the kitchen now and we are waiting for the new countertop. Their were two new pieces of countertop requird for our kitchen. Besides the 102 inch one, we needed an 18 inch one as well. The counter top company put that one in and I posted a picture in the flickr connection here on our site as well as a shot of the old countertop with the sink removed.
Ah the adventure continues…..

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Calgary and BC Ski Trip – The Journey Home.

Today we return home. Will and I returned Sue and my rentals first thing, so as not to get billed for an additional day. We had a nice breakfast and packed all our stuff for the journey home.
It was with sadnesss in our hearts that we had to leave this beautiful place and our friends. Even though I have known Julie for 10 years through work, this was really our first chance to get together as with our spouses. Sue and I both felt that Julie and Will were awesome individuals with whom we had an immediate bond. It was like we had been best friends for years and we were just getting together for an annual event. I think based on this vacation we will be starting a new tradition. Plans are already in the works for next years skiing adventure.
It would be nice to say the journey home was uneventfull, but alas this was not the case.
The drive back through the mountains was pleasant and having left around 12:00pm we arrived Calgary about 3:45.
We used our GPS programmed for shortest distance and this lead us through a somewhat staggered path through Calgary’s West End.
It was nice to drive by Olympic park and see people skiing down the hills.
I had been to this part of Calgary before and I had that feeling of uncertain familiarity as we passed various buildings and roads.
We stopped at a drive through to grab some quick dinner to hold us over on the flight back and gassed up the Honda Civic before returning it.
The GPS Guided us straight into the airport and into the departures areas, then around to arrivals so we could return the car. Technology that works is so nice.
We returned the Car with no additional charges and made our way to the baggage check area.
We had used a new check in via mobile browser to check in for our flight already and we were given a digital boarding pass on my iphone that we just had to show to the various airline people at the requisite checkpoints.
The self service baggage check in had a huge line that went past the westjet counter by twice its lengh. We waited for about 30 minutes in line to check our bags then headed back through security.
The security line wasn’t too bad and after the usual protocols we cleared security and headed for our gate.
We arrived at our gate with about 45 minutes before our scheduled boarding time.
I grabbed a cappuccino and checked email while sue did suduku puzzles.
I wondered around the airport and picked up some munchies for the flight and also found this area called the chinook lounge that I wish I’d know about before sitting at the gate for an hour. This place had nice comfy chairs, computers, TV’s, beverage dispensers and fireplaces. There was hardly anyone there. Note to self, remember to look for lounge areas sponsored by your airline when you first get to the airport if you have more than a 30 minute wait.
Our flight was delayed by about an hour for unexplained reasons and we boarded about 18:50 and took off about 19:10. The flight back was quiet and I had the usual Gin and Tonic and we ate our previously purchased munchies. WestJet has Satellite service on the plane provided by Bell Expressvu. This was kind of cool, and we could watch our favorite shows while flying home. We watched Supernatural and Battlestar Galactica.
After touchdown in Toronto around 12:30am of the following day Toronto time we headed to baggage.
The baggage had already stared appearing when we got to carousel 4 and it wasn’t long before we had snagged our smalled of two bags and waited for the other. And waited, and waited and waited. Our other bag somehow managed to stay in Calgary. We went to lost luggage reporting area and answered the requisite questions. By the time we got out of bagage it was about 1:35 am.
Now it was time to see if our pre-paid, pre-arranged Airport Limo service was waiting for us. As you have probably already thought, no of course it wasnt. We had to call them. Normally this would have been an easy task, but when they gave us a ride to the airport the driver didn’t have any business cards and neither of us could remember the name or phone number of the company. Think, Think, how can we find the number.
Luckily we have vonage voice over ip that records all incoming and outgoing calls.
I used my IPhone to login to our vonage account and lookup the phone records for the day before we flew, found the number and called the Limo company. I got the answering machine. I left a message, but before I finished call waiting was beeping in my ear. Some unrecoginized number was calling me back. I hung up the first call and answered the call waiting. It was a rep from the limousine company. They had no record or our pre booking. I insisted they better find it. They said they would call me back and they did about 5 minutes later. The Airport Limo was on its way in about 15 minutes and they would pick us up at pole 29.
We went outside to wait and while we were standing there, some fellow gave out a gut wrenching scream and collapsed banging his head off of the luggage carts.
Sue ran out to see if she could help him. she didn’t have any rubber gloves so she couldn’t touch him, but she tried to get his attention as he seized violently his head still resting in the luggage racks. one of the limo attendants called 911 and the metro police and the airport inspector EMT showed up within minutes to help the poor fellow.
By the time they got there he had stopped seizing and was awake but somewhat groggy. Sue had assesed that he was alert and didn’t have a concussion and he was responsive to voice when the Police and EMT’s took over.
A few minutes later our Taxi arrived and we loaded our bags (minus one) and headed home. The driver was very nice and appologized for the mixup. We told him we understood and our flight was late anyway so no harm done. He explained he lived close to the airport so he was able to get there in 15 minutes and he was glad he was up and not out partying….lol.
about 30 minutes later 2:30am or so we arrived home and collapsed. 12 hours of travel starting with driving then flying and lots of waiting really tires you out.
Thats it for this Journey, can’t wait till the next.
Writing has been a long time love of mine since my first introduction to creative writing in highschool and I’d like to give thanks to those individuals who inspired me along the way. This being my first attempt since University other than the technical writing I have been doing at work for 10 years I think its appropriate.
The first person I need to acknowledge is Owen Gray, my grade 13 English teacher. It was through his guidance I first realized that I could write things and that just because I was a techy didn’t mean I couldn’t better my writing skills.
Secondly, my longtime friend and school chum, Ed Bagares deserves a mention. I have lived vicariously through Ed’s letters of his travels for years. He has been around the globe and experiencing different cultures and people since our early days at University. It was with his writings in mind I embarked on this new hobby.
Third I should mention Brian Peters. Author of Hypersonic (his first novel) Brian is an IT specialist like myself and good friend. Brian’s ability to work a full time job but explore his passion has prompted me to give this a try.
Thanks to all of you for being who you are. I have felt an awakening of my creative spirit and I hope to propel this into a hobby career.
Cheers.
PS. Our Missing Bag arrived safely to our door in the evening of the next day. Thanks WestJet.

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